Tuesday, September 17, 2013

That thing called Love

I have always been a strong supporter of love at first sight. I remember all those arguments I used to have with the friends because they did not see love happening at first sight. Yet I was a true believer. I was waiting for my prince in shining armor to ride up to me and sweep me off my feet. Knowing how head strong I am, it would have been quite an effort.

But fate had other plans. I met you. It was not love at first sight. We talked, argued, fought, separated many times only to get together again with greater bonding. I did not realize I am in love with you at first. My heart used to sing out loud when you were near and when you were not around, it was down to the dumps. I did not realize how important you had become to me until the day you almost decided to push me out of your life. I lived like a zombie for a week then. As usual, we were back together. You were the same. But I was not. I was a woman in love.

 

I was carefree before. But now, I felt burdened. Your words, which only brought out the argumentative me before now hurt me. I began to take care of what I say to you for I knew you will fling words at me without care and I will have bear the brunt now. Things changed. Still, you were blind. Or rather you chose to be. 

Now I have come to a point where I cannot keep this to myself. I live in constant fear that I might blurt it out anytime. My soul feel trapped. I wish things didn't have to be like this between us. But then, this is reality. 
 
I have heard people do mad things for love. Yes, I believe in it now. I know I cannot have you. There is always a difference between what you want and what you get and I have learnt to accept it. All I want to have now is memories. Memories with which I can nurse my broken heart once you leave. You will  never know that every time we are alone, I stove away the memories in a bag to be opened when you leave. Each time you smile, I take photographs with my eyes so that I will remember them when I am down and you are not around. 


I now know love at first sight did not happen to me. While I was waiting for my prince, I befriended a stranger who slowly but steadily claimed the rights to my heart.  


P.S. : This is inspired from true life. I will not lie by declaring this as fiction. 

10 comments:

  1. I love this. Absolutely love this. Why, this could be inspired from my life too :)

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  2. Love is like that :( You expect something and you get something ..only to realise that you want what you got !

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    1. Yeah.. And sometimes realize it only after you have lost it !

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  3. It is a painful truth that every woman who has the similar situation has to live with. A sequence of one's life that is left forever to be cherished. I loved this post not just because I could relate but I could feel what you have written.

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    1. Yes, Painful and cherished.. I wrote this down because I thought what I felt was beautiful and must not be lost..

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  4. This was a beautiful read! Specially the declaration in the last line :)

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    1. Thanks Shreya :) Indeed the last declaration was the whole driving point of the post !

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  5. why do we crave love? Why do we have a perfect idea of a perfect love which is always flawed and flawed beyond belief

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    1. Because it is human tendency to try and be perfect.. but yes, I agree, love is always flawed ..

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